Relationship & Lifestyle Advice for Indian Men: What to Know Before Marriage in 2025
Marriage is a sacred bond, but in today’s fast-changing world, Indian men need to be more cautious than ever. Increasing reports of marriage misuse, alimony-related pressure, and false legal claims have led many families to re-evaluate how and whom their sons should marry.
Here’s an in-depth guide for Indian men and their families to understand what to do before getting married—emotionally, legally, and financially.
1. Understand the Legal Landscape in India
In India, marriage laws under Section 498A, Domestic Violence Act, and alimony provisions are intended to protect women—but these laws are sometimes misused.
Many families report that:
Women file false dowry or domestic violence cases.
Alimony demands continue even if the man has financial responsibilities towards his parents.
Some marriages are strategically planned with the intention of divorce and financial gain.
✅ Advice:
Do a background check of the woman and her family.
Avoid dowry (illegal in India) and keep proof of all gifts given.
Ensure communication is transparent and mutual consent is clear.
2. Red Flags Before Marriage
Not all marriages are genuine. Watch out for:
Pressure for a high-end wedding or dowry.
Disrespect towards your parents or siblings early on.
Signs of materialistic behavior or manipulative emotional tactics.
✅ Advice:
Choose a partner based on compatibility and values, not looks or wealth.
Involve your family in discussions, especially your parents.
Arrange multiple meetings and allow both families to interact freely.
3. Alimony & Financial Security: Plan Ahead
Post-marriage disputes can result in heavy alimony burdens, especially if:
The wife is unemployed and demands lifelong support.
You have assets or business in your name.
You live in a joint family and your parents’ assets are targeted.
✅ Advice:
Avoid putting large assets solely in your name pre-marriage.
Maintain clear financial records and don’t mix personal and joint funds.
Consider a pre-nuptial agreement (though not legally binding in India, it shows intent).
4. Mental & Emotional Health
Some men suffer in silence due to:
Social stigma around being abused or falsely accused.
Pressure from police, media, and social circles.
Lack of support when dealing with legal issues.
✅ Advice:
Seek counseling or mental health support if you’re under stress.
Connect with men’s rights groups in India like Save Indian Family.
Document all events, texts, emails, and interactions as evidence if needed.
5. Responsibility Towards Your Own Family
If you are the only earning member, you may already be supporting:
Elderly parents
Sister’s marriage
Family’s medical expenses
In case of a separation, alimony can create financial distress for your entire household.
✅ Advice:
Clarify your family responsibilities before marriage.
Keep joint family property documented properly.
Involve your partner in understanding and respecting your duties.
Conclusion: Be Informed, Not Fearful
Marriage is a beautiful institution when both partners are honest, respectful, and aligned in values. However, modern challenges—especially in urban India—require men to be cautious.
This isn’t about hating women—it’s about protecting good men and good families from being unfairly targeted.
